So I guess I should start with a little bit about myself. I've been exploring the lifestyle for over a decade now and been more active for the last 5 years or so. I've had a few online Doms but only 2 that were anything nearing serious. As hard as it is for a Mistress to wade through the countless wannabe slaves, it seems just as hard to find a Mistress that is serious and reasonable in their relationships.
This is something I take very seriously. It's easy to find something short and fun but much harder to find something long and meaningful. I do have an outside life that includes a job and responsibilities but I am still very serious about having a meaningful relationship. I am still willing to do sessions and be a part of something that is less serious but am definitely looking for something long term.
I am willing to go on Skype and or send pictures and videos. I do however ask for some time to build that trust. I have had some bad experiences in the past and require there to be at least some trust built.
I can't say that I have this image of a perfect Mistress in my head. I've had too many different Mistresses with good qualities to not appreciate all the differences that each individual can bring to the table.
I do want someone that is strict and demanding. That wants me put in my place and under their control. I don't want to be left off the hook. This is about You and Your desires. I am here for You and I want a Mistress that won't forget this.
The more strict the control, the better to me. I feel as though I am at my best when I am serving someone else and under their control. And that is my ultimate goal, to grow into the best slave possible.